If a man truly love you,he will never say these things to you,if he does,he doesn`t love you
When it comes to men, things might get a bit complicated, you know. Interpreting their actions oftentimes can be exhausting and moreover very confusing.
1. If you truly love a man and he keep saying “I don’t care..” or showing you “I don’t care..” attitude, you need to let go of the relationship.
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2. I don't have time for this
"This comes across very blunt and hurtful, and seems like you don't really want to spend time with your partner. The message underneath is 'you are not that important to me. These other things are more important to me than you.'"
3. Oh, Grow up.
"Telling someone they need to grow up is a backhanded way of saying 'You are not where you should be right now.' Whether the comment is being directed at where they are emotionally or professionally, it's an insulting way telling someone they are not who they need to be for you to love them.
4. Shut up
"This is not only rude and condescending, it's a clear message that your partner does not want to hear what you have to say. It's also a clear message that your feelings and thoughts don't matter. A good partner will open you up, not shut you down.
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5. I'm gonna kill you.
"This abusive strategy is meant to disarm you and keep you in fear for your life and the life of everyone you hold dear. You never know when this threat will become real, This is the most dangerous thing a partner can say to you.
6. Let's just have a quickie.
"If your partner is selfish when it comes to sex - whether it's guilt tripping you into having sex when you don't want to or ignoring your need for pleasure in the bedroom-not having your needs met s3e-xually may be a sign to end the relationship. Just because your partner got an orgasm doesn't meet your needs have been fulfilled."
7. You're getting really fat.
"A partner who criticizes you in your most vulnerable areas is a sign that he or she is uncaring and hurtful.
8. I'm not attracted to you
If your partner decides to share their current lack of attraction to you, it's like a nuclear bomb has hit your self esteem, the relationship and your sexual desire. You're left feeling judged, insecure about your body, and apprehensive to be sexually vulnerable."
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9. It's all your fault.
"Blame drives disconnection. Blame allows a spouse to put responsibility on their mate other than himself/herself. Blaming your spouse allows you to stay in your comfort zone and not change. Both partners need to look at their own faults, figure out how blame is corrupting their connection, and take responsibility for their part in the relationship."
10. "You never satisfy me"
Your partner wants to make you happy, and it can make him feel like a failure if he can't satisfy you physically. Be open and honest with him, but be careful with your tone and word choice. When you address this problem with love and understanding, you can both come to a solution more easily.
11. "I don't know why I ever married you"
This is something you might want to say in the heat of an argument, but avoid hurtful statements like this. You'll regret it later, and your partner will still have the scars from this stinging comment.
You might not mean to hurt your spouse, but these types of comments can kill your relationship. Remember: once words are said, they can only be forgiven, not forgotten.
1. If you truly love a man and he keep saying “I don’t care..” or showing you “I don’t care..” attitude, you need to let go of the relationship.
ALSO READ: 151 sweet and romantic text messages you need to send to your lover
2. I don't have time for this
"This comes across very blunt and hurtful, and seems like you don't really want to spend time with your partner. The message underneath is 'you are not that important to me. These other things are more important to me than you.'"
3. Oh, Grow up.
"Telling someone they need to grow up is a backhanded way of saying 'You are not where you should be right now.' Whether the comment is being directed at where they are emotionally or professionally, it's an insulting way telling someone they are not who they need to be for you to love them.
4. Shut up
"This is not only rude and condescending, it's a clear message that your partner does not want to hear what you have to say. It's also a clear message that your feelings and thoughts don't matter. A good partner will open you up, not shut you down.
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"
5. I'm gonna kill you.
"This abusive strategy is meant to disarm you and keep you in fear for your life and the life of everyone you hold dear. You never know when this threat will become real, This is the most dangerous thing a partner can say to you.
6. Let's just have a quickie.
"If your partner is selfish when it comes to sex - whether it's guilt tripping you into having sex when you don't want to or ignoring your need for pleasure in the bedroom-not having your needs met s3e-xually may be a sign to end the relationship. Just because your partner got an orgasm doesn't meet your needs have been fulfilled."
7. You're getting really fat.
"A partner who criticizes you in your most vulnerable areas is a sign that he or she is uncaring and hurtful.
8. I'm not attracted to you
If your partner decides to share their current lack of attraction to you, it's like a nuclear bomb has hit your self esteem, the relationship and your sexual desire. You're left feeling judged, insecure about your body, and apprehensive to be sexually vulnerable."
ALSO READ: Pastor Tells His Church Members To Donate $54Million Because God Told Him To Buy A 4th Private Jet (Video)
9. It's all your fault.
"Blame drives disconnection. Blame allows a spouse to put responsibility on their mate other than himself/herself. Blaming your spouse allows you to stay in your comfort zone and not change. Both partners need to look at their own faults, figure out how blame is corrupting their connection, and take responsibility for their part in the relationship."
10. "You never satisfy me"
Your partner wants to make you happy, and it can make him feel like a failure if he can't satisfy you physically. Be open and honest with him, but be careful with your tone and word choice. When you address this problem with love and understanding, you can both come to a solution more easily.
11. "I don't know why I ever married you"
This is something you might want to say in the heat of an argument, but avoid hurtful statements like this. You'll regret it later, and your partner will still have the scars from this stinging comment.
You might not mean to hurt your spouse, but these types of comments can kill your relationship. Remember: once words are said, they can only be forgiven, not forgotten.
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